Swinger's Not Just On Playgrounds Anymore



Dave's marriage had hit the rocks. His wife had lost interest in sex,
and Dave did not know how to deal with it. He did not know whether she was
bored with him or simply bored with sex. In his search for an answer Dave and
his wife attended a swinger's party. This would eventually end Dave's marriage,
but it would also lead him to greener pastures.
"She did not want to share the lifestyle with me, and sharing is an
important part of swinging. Swingers swing to enhance the relationship with
their mate, not to destroy it," Dave said.
Dave met his second wife more than 15 years ago at a swinger's party.
The couple has now turned their lifestyle into their business. For the
past ...

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is an option at Dave and Dawn's club. Their club is known as an on-site'
club. This means that Dave and Dawn provide bedrooms for their members'
enjoyment.
"Ours is an on-premise club. We have bedrooms where sex does take place,
but only if it is consensual. We do not force our activities on anyone," Dave
said.
Dave adds that having sex is something most people associate with a
swing club, but often this is not true.
Bob McGinley, whose self-given title is the grandfather of swing,
believes many people have misconceptions about swinging. He says swinging
cannot be categorized as mate swapping or as group sex. In fact McGinley
believes swinging cannot be put into a category at all.
"Putting a label on the activity is wrong. People call us swingers
because we have sex with someone other than our mate, but you don't call someone
a tenniser because they enjoy hitting a ball over a net. Someone involved in
swinging is also involved in many other things . . . ...

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names.
"Older people do not lose their sexual desire just because they are
older. In fact, many senior citizens become are more comfortable with their
sexuality than many young people. They tend to lose their inhibitions with
age," McGinley said.
When Bob and Linda met 17 years ago they had both just been burned.
Linda had recently gotten out of an 'open-marriage,' and Bob had just divorced
his first wife. Both wanted to change lifestyles before embarking on another
relationship and swinging helped the couple do this.

The couple who are now in their late 50's have their own swing club, Perfect
Pairs, in Orlando Fla. Their club is an off-site club. No sex occurs at ...

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