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Romeo And Juliet: Various Types of Love
Throughout the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet various types of "love" are
displayed . Benvolio believes women are interchangeable, while, at the
beginning Romeo bel ieves love is pain. At the beginning Juliet does not
even have a definition of love. Paris's and Lady Capulet's definition of
love is in appearance. It is obvio us that Shakespeare wants the audience
to believe that the only "true" or "real" love is the love that exists
between Romeo and Juliet. The first type of love the audience is introduced
to is the "interchangeable" lo ve of Benvolio. According to Benvolio, a man
should "love" a woman for only the duration of their relationship. If their
relationship should end, the man should feel no grief. If the woman rejects
the man initially, he should still feel no grief. In either situation, the
man should simply start a relationship with anot her woman. Benvolio's
definition of love shows the audience two things about Ben volio: he is a
womanizer and he has never before experienced "true love." The next
definition of love comes from Romeo, but before the time he met Juliet.
According to his definition, love (or, rather, not returned love) is pain.
He h ides from the sun due to the "love" he feels, and does not act like
"himself." I believe Romeo is both right and wrong: not returned love is
pain, but Romeo doe s not truly love, as he is merely infatuated by a woman.
The next definition of love comes from Juliet, who, before meeting Romeo,
did no t even have a definition of love. She appears not to know what love
is, and, for that matter, does not seem to care. She remains ignorant until
she meets Romeo.
Another type of "love" we are exposed to during the same scene is the love
of Lady Capulet. Lady Capulet believes love comes from appearance, both
physical and political, and has nothing to do with emotion. She shows this
when she speaks favorably of Paris's looks and his nobility. She also shows
that she does not love Capulet when she publicly denounces him. The Nurse's
opinion of love coincides with that of Lady Capulet.
Paris has a similar view of love. His "love" for Juliet appears to be pure,
but his reason does not. He loves Juliet for her appearance and nothing
else. He regards her more as property than as an individual. He is also
selfish in his "love." When he believes Juliet is dead (in Act IV) he seems
sorrier for his own loss than Juliet's apparent loss. He "loves" Juliet as
much as he can love anyone, but his love cannot be considered "true love"
because of his selfishness.
Finally, in Act II, the audience sees what is defined as "true love" in our
society. This "love" is the love that grows between Romeo and Juliet. The
definition of "true love" Shakespeare provides the audience with states
that all the other characters' definitions of love are wrong. It also
states that when two people are in true love, there is no pain unless they
are permanently separated. It shows that lovers are not interchangeable,
and that love transcends appearance. It proves all except one other "love"
in the play wrong. It also shows that real love is not affected by distance
or convenience. When two people are in "true love" they are not selfish to
one another, do not care about appearances, and cannot live without one
another. I agree with this definition of love (all except that without one
another the lovers cannot survive).
Romeo and Juliet's love for one another also goes beyond one other thing:
names. It shows that names do not matter. In our society the difference in
names would be equal to two people of different races. The people would
come from racist families in a modern day remake of the play.
The last example of love in the play is parental love. This is shown in Act
V scene iii. Lady Montague dies due to separation from her son. Capulet,
Montague, Lady Capulet, and even the Nurse shows that they love either
Romeo or Juliet in t his way.
In the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet many types of love are shown. None of
them are wrong, as the word "love" is subject to interpretation, but it is
obvious that Shakespeare did not have this in mind when he wrote the play.
Shakespeare shows us that the only type of love worth being in is "true
love." He also shows us that, with all types of love, there is pain. If his
goal was to influence the audience to believe that the only real love is
the type of love that existed between Romeo and Juliet, I believe he
accomplished it.
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